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MYou Can’t Please Everyone
any people identify as “people-pleasers.” If you can relate and wonder why it’s so hard to change, it’s because these relationships
were built on the foundation of pleasing others. Thus, anytime you stop pleasing others, they’ll push away and your relationship will go back to the orig- inal way of interacting. It’s as if both parties require each other to be a certain way in order to exist in the
dynamic.
Breaking out of this pattern is possible if you accept
that some relationships will naturally fall away as you shed who you were to show up as who you are. It can be done. Being a people-pleaser breeds resentment, but ultimately, we all want to be loved for who we are, and not for what we do.
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